I have always felt that the first break in the family is more than all others... but Christ has come in where death was and given a life beyond it all. He calls us in gracious and tender love to live in that. He knows how to comfort -knows what death is far better than we do, because He is the resurrection and the life-has wept over it and suffered it. He will comfort you... with a comfort which, if it feels for death, death cannot touch.