Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
Unity in spiritual interest is absolutely essential to a happy courtship and marriage. For starters both of you MUST be Christians. For a Christian to court a non-Christian is courting disaster. It will not work - unless you, the Christian, bury your Christianity so that it won’t be seen. But then you’ll be unhappy. If you’re “going” with an unbeliever - drop them - today. Yes, it’s hard - you like them, you may even love them, but you cannot expect God’s blessing in your life when you have an unequal yoke.