God Created Love

“Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other.” 1 Corinthians 7:3-5
“Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth  ...  let her breasts satisfy thee at all times: and be thou ravished always with her love.” Proverbs 5:18-1918Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 19Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. (Proverbs 5:18‑19)
“I will praise Thee: for I am  ...  wonderfully made: marvelous are Thy works, and that my soul
knoweth right well.”
Psalm 139:1414I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. (Psalm 139:14)
In communicating love we need to remember the importance of loving our husbands physically. God says the wife does not have the power of her own body, but the husband. God designed the physical union as an elegantly simple plan for pleasure, and specifically forbids a husband and wife from tampering with that plan. God wants us to ravish our husbands. Have you read the Song of Solomon carefully? In amazing detail, the husband and wife describe how they visually and tactilely enjoy each other from head to toe. The wife is both a willing responder and a passionate initiator. The bed is undefiled and is the God-given place for a man and wife to delight in their love. A man not only has a physical and hormonal need for his wife, but also a deep emotional need to excite and thrill her. That means she needs to show him her passion and desire with her actions and her words. If she doesn’t have the emotions, she can thrill him anyway, and pray her own hormones will kick in to help out. They usually do. Our God created this expression of love!