Proverbs 31:10-31
Part 2
We have noticed the good work this woman did for her family and others, and how busy she must have been. But there is not much told of what she had for herself,—only that “her clothing is silk and purple”, and have “strength and honor (or dignity)” (verses 22, 25). It is known that silk was woven in early times, but some give the word linen itead of silk; purple was the color used by kings or rich people, as the dye was expensive. So the lady’s clothes were good and strong and suitable for her high place.
In the Bible, garments teach us of the outward life of a person; they are what are seen by others, and tell of the tastes and character of the wearer. So this would teach that the Christian’s ways should be good, and with strength for the right, and with dignity as God’s child.
This woman was not said to have beauty, it only says, “Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain” (Verse 30). The favor of others may quickly change, and beauty be spoiled. It does not say that she wore ornaments, or tried to make her appeance noticeable, “but a woman who feareth the Lord she shall be praised.” This means one who believes and reverences the Lord, and He will give the praise.
When Israel was a great nation, and earlier, as in the time of Rebecca, men and women used precious ornaments, for, if they obeyed God, they were to have the best of earth’s treasures; but since the Lord Jesus was refused here and despised, His people have a humble place, and to seek favor in this world’s ways is not their place.
But notice this busy woman had wisdom, and when she spoke it was not foolishly or sharply, and her “law, or rule” was with “kindness”. Could there be a better rule?
She must have had much patience, for spinning, weaving, and tapestry all require long hours by hand. A Christian needs much patience to do the work of God’s household quietly for Him.
This careful woman made sure that “her merchandise is good” (Verse 18). Are we careful that we do not have what is of poor quality for a child of God,—perhaps poor books, pictures, music, or fashions?
The Lord has not given to a woman the place of leader, but of “helpmeet”, and this “virtuous” woman was busy and content in the place God gave, so is an example to girls and women and also to every Christian to be busy for the Lord in a right place.
These verses and many others from the New Testament would teach much the same lessons as the poem of the good woman.
“That women adorn themselves in most apparel, with...sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array, But (which becometh women professing godliness), with good works.” 1 Tim. 2:9,10.
“Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting which are not convenient; but rather giving of thanks.” Eph. 5:4.
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