the Oil of Joy for Mourning.

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ALONE in a crowd, bereaved and desolate, a widowed mother was following the bier to see her last prop buried. It is not said that she wailed or lamented aloud (as is the custom in the East), or uttered any sound. Her heart was broken, and broken hearts make little noise. Her hopes as "a mother of Israel" had perished; the strong arm that had been her stay was withered in death; the warm heart where she had found refuge was cold and still; the light of her eyes was gone.
But there was One at hand who came "to bind up the broken-hearted"; and though she knew Him not, nor asked mercy at His hands, His sympathy with sorrow, ever welling over, and needing but an object, was instantly in action. "He came, and touched the bier"; for He will be one with her in all the sorrow that it tells. He will identify Himself with all that that sad scene declares, whether as to her or as to that which it shadows forth; for without a doubt the Jewish nation's future and sudden deliverance from utter desolation are pictured here; but that is another matter. It is the blessed Jesus, now glorified, and yet "the same yesterday, and to-day, and forever," I want you to contemplate now. He takes up that heart-wrung widow's anguish unasked, and for Him to take it up is her deliverance and the young man's too. The onward movement to the grave, the tomb of the widow's help, and hope, and heart's affections, is at once arrested, as it will be when He comes again the second time, as the Great Deliverer of His never-forgotten people Israel, widowed and desolate till then.
“They that bare him stood still," and the voice of Jesus speaks him into life! That same voice had but just before spoken comfort to the mother's broken heart, and so prepared and fortified that heart for all that was to follow. Who does not wish he could have heard that gentle utterance, "Weep not," expressive of such compassion as must have sent a thrill into her inmost soul, hushing to rest an agony of grief, and waking withered hope into life again!
“And He delivered him to his mother." Do you wonder how He did it? I think it not unlikely that He lifted him from the bier in His own arms of almighty love, and placed him on her bosom. It was but like Himself to do so; for those gracious hands of His could not be still when the helpless were before Him. (See Mark 1:31; 6:5; 10:1631And he came and took her by the hand, and lifted her up; and immediately the fever left her, and she ministered unto them. (Mark 1:31)
5And he could there do no mighty work, save that he laid his hands upon a few sick folk, and healed them. (Mark 6:5)
16And he took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed them. (Mark 10:16)
.) MAR 1:3131And he came and took her by the hand, and lifted her up; and immediately the fever left her, and she ministered unto them. (Mark 1:31) MAR 6:55And he could there do no mighty work, save that he laid his hands upon a few sick folk, and healed them. (Mark 6:5) MAR 10:1616And he took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed them. (Mark 10:16) But we do not know, and I do not believe, that if any one had asked the widow herself at the very moment, she could have told them. That sudden bound from depths of utter desolation into full deliverance must have been overwhelming. Her joy and amazement would utterly deprive her of all other consciousness than that her only son was alive again, and in his mother's arms. If the same precious sympathy, love, and power, which had given the young man back to life, had not sustained her in that wondrous hour, the joy, too big for any human heart, would have killed her outright; for joy can kill, as well as sorrow. Was he not “the only son of his mother, and she a widow"?
And when the astounded mother, her face yet wet with tears of sorrow, clasped her only son to her breast once more, do you think she knew who had done it all? Not she, much less why; for if the tender heart that moved the blessed Jesus to that deed of pity could not bear unmoved the sight of that widowed mother's re-union with her child, He did not stay to tell her. Perfect Jesus! He could but "deliver him to his mother," and pass on to where other hearts were aching.
Later, His own heart of love would be broken; His kind hands, His blessed feet, be nailed to the bitter cross. And was His a martyr's death? Nay, He "gave Himself for our sins, that He might redeem us." He "suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that He might bring us to God." He gave "His life a ransom for many." Do you, dear reader, know yourself ransomed, redeemed, and your sins put away, by "the precious blood of Christ"? Are you filled "with all joy and peace in believing" on Him, the only Saviour?