| “The fruit of the Spirit is … temperance [self-control]” (Galatians 5:22-23). |
| Temperance, which means self-control or self-discipline, is a most important character trait to develop in ourselves when we are young. We do not want to sound like those who are always talking about “the good old days,” but discipline in general has been rather belittled in our society during the past few years. The object of discipline by parents, teachers, and others who mold our character when we are young is to enable us gradually to discipline ourselves as we advance into adulthood. But if those who are in authority over us do not have this self-discipline, then it is impossible for them to teach others what they do not possess themselves. |
| The lack of self-control and self-discipline affects many areas of our lives. It affects our ability to make and keep commitments, as we talked about two days ago. It results in a lifestyle that uses credit to buy more than we can afford; it causes us to be sloppy in managing our affairs; it makes us careless in our dress and appearance; it results in overeating and obesity. It can lead us into many kinds of addictions. The advertising today only adds to all this by telling us that we deserve it, that we are “worth it,” and that we should indulge ourselves, even if we cannot afford it. |
| All too often, when a lack of self-control tempts people to make unwise decisions, they get into trouble, but then expect that others will “bail them out” of their difficulties. Recently a woman, through her own lack of wisdom, was fooled by an internet scam and lost a considerable amount of money. But then on the internet she begged others to donate funds to cover her loss. |
| In Lamentations 3:27 we read that “it is good for a man to bear the yoke in his youth.” To learn to take charge of our own affairs and manage them well when we are young is excellent training for later life. It is true that this comes easier to some than others, and some of you may have to work harder at this, and ask the Lord for help. But He will help us to develop this character trait, if we ask Him. It is most important. |
