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Q. Is “going out” with people for a short time, and then “breaking up” with them the right thing to do?

A. We are never at liberty to play with another person’s emotions, and never do we have a precept in the Bible that would encourage us to fall into the habit of “short term” dating. This has often led to much sorrow, as the heart becomes involved even before we realize it.

The world takes these things so lightly, and marriage and “long term” relationships are not even considered. But the Christian is not to follow the trends and course of the world. “Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God” (Romans 12:2). Dating is a serious thing, and marriage is for life. It is not something to be played at and entered into lightly. The Lord wants to show us the path of His choice, and He wants us to have a happy, fruitful life in every aspect of every relationship, including marriage.

“Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord” (Ephesians 5:10).

Do you have a question? Email us at jhyland@primus.ca

The Lord’s Will

“Go to now, ye that say, Today or tomorrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain: Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away. For that ye ought to say, If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this, or that” (James 4:13-15).

There are many things we do that we have to say, “We hope we have the Lord’s mind.” Often we look back and it is confirmed, and maybe sometimes we look back and realize that perhaps we missed His mind. Then we need grace to correct it. How good it is, in every activity of life, to seek the will of the Lord, and then to act in faith and obedience when He shows us. Sometimes the next step may not seem all that clear, but He is with us every mile of the journey of life, and even when we get ahead of the Lord, “thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left” (Isaiah 30:21).

 

Monthly Scripture Reading

Genesis 1

27 So God created man in His own image, in the image of God created He him; male and female created He them.

28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

29 And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.

30 And to every beast of the earth, and to every fowl of the air, and to every thing that creepeth upon the earth, wherein there is life, I have given every green herb for meat: and it was so.

31 And God saw every thing that He had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

 

Debate or Obey?

The following statement on a church marquee caught my eye.

It is easier to debate the Bible, than obey the Bible!

I have pondered the statement ever since, and, sad to say, there seems to be a lot of truth in it. I have wondered why it is, and perhaps there are a number of reasons.

The natural man does not like to submit…it is contrary to human nature.

The path of obedience is not necessarily the easiest path, although in the end it is the happiest path.

Man likes to use his intellect to debate, but it takes faith to obey the Word of God.

Human nature is such that we like a good argument.

Debating exalts human ability, obedience takes humility of mind and spirit.

Let’s be like David who said: “Teach me to do Thy will; for Thou art my God: Thy spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness” (Psalm 143:10).

 

Dear Young Christian:

“Simon answering said unto Him, Master, we have toiled all the night, and have taken nothing: nevertheless at Thy word I will let down the net”
(Luke 5:5).

I have been thinking a lot about this verse lately. To have labored all night without a single fish must have been very discouraging to say the least. Cold and weary they had toiled all night for fish to feed their hunger, to no avail. Trusting in their own efforts and expertise as fisherman they came up with nothing. What they needed, the Lord provided in the way He alone could. The Creator of the universe had the fish ready on the fire. He is still the same today and able to provide in unique ways to those who trust Him alone for their needs.

As you launch out on another week of activity, remember, nothing will be accomplished without Him. Paul said, “I can do all things through Christ” (Philippians 4:14).

Your Christian Friend,

Jim Hyland

We would love to hear from you. Send your comments or questions to jhyland@primus.ca

Jesus Only

“When they had lifted up their eyes, they saw no man, save Jesus only” (Matthew 17:8).

“Jesus only with themselves” (Mark 9:8).

What a sight! Three scared men looked up and saw only Jesus there on the top of the mountain with themselves. If you get a view of Jesus only, young person, life will take on a different perspective. As the song says,

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,

Look full in His wonderful face,

And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,

In the light of His glory and grace.

Jesus brightens the view of heaven and the things of this life seem less important. As you meet with others today in the worship of the Lord, let Him lift your eyes up so that you can see only Him. You’ll worship — you won’t be able to help it.

“Looking unto Jesus…who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God” (Hebrews 12:2).

 

Nothing To Do

“Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us” (Titus 3:5).

“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

People talk about the help of Christ in their salvation. In other words, if they do their part Christ will do His. They forget that the Lord Jesus Christ “by HIMSELF purged our sins” (Hebrews 1:3), and that their part is simply to accept what has been done.

Salvation by faith in Christ alone is repeatedly declared in the Bible to the present possession, not merely future, of every believer. The Lord Himself stressed this vital truth, as on one occasion He declared, “Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth My word, and believeth on Him that sent Me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life” (John 5:24).

 

Sure Support

“I will uphold thee” (Isaiah 41:10).

I have seen both a sapling and its supporting stake blown over. Neither was strong enough to withstand a strong wind or heavy storm. How often the Christian feels the need of support when the winds of trouble blow, and how comforting it is to know that there is such a support.

Isaiah 31:1 says: “Woe to them that go down to Egypt for help.” This is always a temptation to believers — to look to the world for help. That help is something that seems sufficient and able apart from God’s provision for His people whom He loves so much.

However, instead of turning to the world, we must turn rather to God’s Word in Isaiah 41:10 where we read, “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of My righteousness.”

It is in the God of Israel that the trembling soul finds a sure support today, as all God’s people have in every age.

 

The Twelve Apostles – Part 4

Thaddaeus

He is referred to by different names.

In Matthew he is called, “Lebbaeus, whose surname was Thaddaeus” (Matthew 10:3).

Mark simply refers to him as, “Thaddaeus” (Mark 3:18).

Luke mentions him as, “Judas the brother of James” (Luke 6:16).

John calls Him, “Judas…not Iscariot” (John 14:22).

There is little known of him from Scripture. He is the one who asked the Lord, “Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest Thyself unto us, and not unto the world?” (John 14:22).

Secular history tells us that he was a man of great national zeal, more interested in making Christ known to the world as a powerful King rather than a suffering Saviour. This seems to be confirmed by his question. However, secular history also records that after the ascension of Christ and the establishment of Christianity by the descent of the Holy Spirit, he preached the gospel faithfully in many parts of the known world, and that he was killed by arrows at Ararat.

He is assumed to be the writer of the Epistle of Jude.

 

Crossroads

There are many crossroads in our life, and many ways the Lord directs us. We need much prayer but we need to couple it with consistent orderly reading of the Word of God. We read, “Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path” (Psalm 119:105). According to this verse, this is the main way that God directs us. It is not just reading here and there, but in an orderly way. As we come to steps and decisions in our life, if we are prayerfully reading our Bibles, the Lord will speak to direct us, so that when we take the step we can do it with confidence because we have a scripture that we feel has directed us.

If we do not have what we feel is definite direction from the Lord then it is best to wait, and waiting is one of the hardest lessons that the Lord tries to teach us…and we probably never learn it fully this side of heaven. Over and over in the Psalms David talks about waiting on the Lord. For example: “Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord” (Psalm 27:14). “Wait on the Lord, and keep His way” (Psalm 37:34).