Unto one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one; to every man according to his several ability.
The Lord has given different gifts to different people in His church. Not all are the same. If all the gifts were the same, life would be pretty monotonous. But we all have something from Him to be used for Him in the strengthening of the body of Christ. We can either use the gift or let it lie dormant. But the only path of real blessing is to use what we have for Him without trying to be something that we are not. Remember to do all for the glory of God.