Chapter Eight: What Should Be Done When There Is a Wrong Decision?

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Question:
What should I do if an assembly makes an unrighteous and wrong decision?
Before we try to answer this question, we should be very careful in calling certain assembly decisions that have been made, wrong or evil. It may be that brethren have acted on Scriptural principles in some matter and that we are ignorant of these principles. We imagine that they are wrong, but it’s we who are wrong.
On the other hand, it is possible that things may have been handled wrongly and an erroneous decision may have been made in an assembly. Assuming that this is the premise of the question, we will try to answer it accordingly.
Answer:
If such a thing were to occur—that an assembly made an unrighteous decision—there is recourse.
Firstly, we can take the matter in prayer directly to the Lord; He is the Head of the church. He can exercise the consciences of those in that locality to the end that they will set the action right.
Secondly, the Lord can raise up prophets in the assembly locally or send some from other assemblies to arouse the conscience of that assembly so that the erroneous decision might be rectified (2 Cor. 2:4; Rev. 2:1313I know thy works, and where thou dwellest, even where Satan's seat is: and thou holdest fast my name, and hast not denied my faith, even in those days wherein Antipas was my faithful martyr, who was slain among you, where Satan dwelleth. (Revelation 2:13); 2 Chron. 24:19-2219Yet he sent prophets to them, to bring them again unto the Lord; and they testified against them: but they would not give ear. 20And the Spirit of God came upon Zechariah the son of Jehoiada the priest, which stood above the people, and said unto them, Thus saith God, Why transgress ye the commandments of the Lord, that ye cannot prosper? because ye have forsaken the Lord, he hath also forsaken you. 21And they conspired against him, and stoned him with stones at the commandment of the king in the court of the house of the Lord. 22Thus Joash the king remembered not the kindness which Jehoiada his father had done to him, but slew his son. And when he died, he said, The Lord look upon it, and require it. (2 Chronicles 24:19‑22); Judges 9:5-215And he went unto his father's house at Ophrah, and slew his brethren the sons of Jerubbaal, being threescore and ten persons, upon one stone: notwithstanding yet Jotham the youngest son of Jerubbaal was left; for he hid himself. 6And all the men of Shechem gathered together, and all the house of Millo, and went, and made Abimelech king, by the plain of the pillar that was in Shechem. 7And when they told it to Jotham, he went and stood in the top of mount Gerizim, and lifted up his voice, and cried, and said unto them, Hearken unto me, ye men of Shechem, that God may hearken unto you. 8The trees went forth on a time to anoint a king over them; and they said unto the olive tree, Reign thou over us. 9But the olive tree said unto them, Should I leave my fatness, wherewith by me they honor God and man, and go to be promoted over the trees? 10And the trees said to the fig tree, Come thou, and reign over us. 11But the fig tree said unto them, Should I forsake my sweetness, and my good fruit, and go to be promoted over the trees? 12Then said the trees unto the vine, Come thou, and reign over us. 13And the vine said unto them, Should I leave my wine, which cheereth God and man, and go to be promoted over the trees? 14Then said all the trees unto the bramble, Come thou, and reign over us. 15And the bramble said unto the trees, If in truth ye anoint me king over you, then come and put your trust in my shadow: and if not, let fire come out of the bramble, and devour the cedars of Lebanon. 16Now therefore, if ye have done truly and sincerely, in that ye have made Abimelech king, and if ye have dealt well with Jerubbaal and his house, and have done unto him according to the deserving of his hands; 17(For my father fought for you, and adventured his life far, and delivered you out of the hand of Midian: 18And ye are risen up against my father's house this day, and have slain his sons, threescore and ten persons, upon one stone, and have made Abimelech, the son of his maidservant, king over the men of Shechem, because he is your brother;) 19If ye then have dealt truly and sincerely with Jerubbaal and with his house this day, then rejoice ye in Abimelech, and let him also rejoice in you: 20But if not, let fire come out from Abimelech, and devour the men of Shechem, and the house of Millo; and let fire come out from the men of Shechem, and from the house of Millo, and devour Abimelech. 21And Jotham ran away, and fled, and went to Beer, and dwelt there, for fear of Abimelech his brother. (Judges 9:5‑21)).
Thirdly, if that local assembly refuses to deal with its wrongs after it has been shown to them conclusively from the Word of God, it may be disowned by the binding action of another assembly acting on behalf of the body at large. They would simply make a formal statement that the assembly in error is no longer on the true ground of the church of God. This responsibility is alluded to in the Lord’s addresses to the seven churches in Asia (Rev. 2-3). He held “the angel” (the responsible leaders) of each assembly accountable for all the wrongs allowed in that local assembly. But each address closes with the words, “What the Spirit saith to the churches” (plural). This shows that although each assembly is responsible to deal with evil in its midst, there is a corporate responsibility on the part of the other assemblies in the matter, if the local assembly does not deal with it. The Lord does not speak, in that passage, as to how this is to be undertaken, but simply that there is a corporate responsibility on the part of the other assemblies.
This principle is enlarged upon in type in Deuteronomy 13. If evil was found in a person in a city in the land, the city wherein he lived was to “stone” him to death (vss. 6-11). Stoning speaks of the conscience of all in a local assembly being engaged in the judgment of a wicked person in its midst. And, if a city is found to have evil in it that it won’t judge, then the other cites in the land were to act for God’s glory by judging that city. It was to be destroyed and made a heap forever (vss. 12-18). This shows that there was a collective responsibility on the part of all the cities in Israel to put away evil in the land. Typically, it speaks of an assembly that is proved to be unrighteous being disowned by the other assemblies in fellowship with it, as being no longer gathered on the true ground of the church.
As mentioned earlier, the removing of a candlestick in a locality is something the Lord does not do quickly. It is only after much remonstrance and space given it for repentance that the Lord will raise up another assembly to disown that assembly in the wrong. Then, of course, the erroneous action that that disowned assembly has bound would no longer stand. In the interim, until an assembly comes in and acts for God’s glory in the matter (in disowning the unrighteous assembly in question), we are to bow to the action and to wait on God. We mention this to show that there is recourse against the abuse of authority in administrative affairs.
Let us note that Scripture never instructs us to take matters into our own hands, as individuals, and act to independently in what seems to be a wrong assembly action; such a thing is not “endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the uniting bond of peace” (Eph. 4:33Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:3)). Independent action of individuals in such collective matters is always decried in the Scriptures (Deut. 17:1212And the man that will do presumptuously, and will not hearken unto the priest that standeth to minister there before the Lord thy God, or unto the judge, even that man shall die: and thou shalt put away the evil from Israel. (Deuteronomy 17:12); Num. 15:30-3130But the soul that doeth ought presumptuously, whether he be born in the land, or a stranger, the same reproacheth the Lord; and that soul shall be cut off from among his people. 31Because he hath despised the word of the Lord, and hath broken his commandment, that soul shall utterly be cut off; his iniquity shall be upon him. (Numbers 15:30‑31)). It only opens the door for the enemy to divide and scatter the flock. There is a divinely appointed way in which such problems are to be dealt with; we must follow it if order is to be maintained.
Unfortunately, this is where many Christians get into error; they think that they can’t submit to something they believe is unrighteous and not according to Scripture. They think that they will be compromising a good conscience. Some will say, “I have to obey the Lord first, not the brethren!” But this is a façade; if the Lord can stand by the decision until it is rectified, why can’t we? An assembly that makes an error in its administrative responsibilities still has the Lord in its midst until it is formally disowned. J. N. Darby said, “Why speak of obeying the Lord first, then the church? But supposing that the Lord is in the church? It is merely setting up private judgment against the judgment of the assembly meeting in Christ’s Name with His promise (if they are not, I have nothing to say to them); it is simply saying, ‘I count myself wiser than those who are.’ I reject entirely as unscriptural the saying, ‘First Christ, then the Church.’” On this same subject he also said, “The question, therefore, is a mere and poor sophistry which betrays the desire to have the will free, and a confidence that the person’s judgment is superior to all that has been already judged.”
It is important to understand that the assembly has been vouchsafed with the Lord’s authority to act in His Name in the time of His absence, and its acts are to be submitted to as the final authority. In Matthew 18:18-2018Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. 20For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. (Matthew 18:18‑20), in dealing with a certain matter, the Lord said, “Tell it to the assembly.” Then, He went on to speak of its authority to act in His name, saying, “Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” An example of the assembly binding is found in 1 Corinthians 5:11-1311But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. 12For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within? 13But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person. (1 Corinthians 5:11‑13); an example of the assembly loosing is found in 2 Corinthians 2:6-116Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many. 7So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow. 8Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him. 9For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things. 10To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ; 11Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices. (2 Corinthians 2:6‑11).
However, because the assembly has been given authority to act for God’s glory does not mean that its acts are infallible. J. N. Darby has written a helpful article on this subject entitled, “Confounding Authority with Infallibility.” He shows that it’s possible that an assembly may bind something that is in error, and it is bound in heaven—at least until the action can be rectified. Many people have been confused on this point. They can’t understand how an action that is wrong could be “bound in heaven.” However, “bound in heaven” does not necessarily mean that it is approved by heaven. It simply means that heaven recognizes it. Heaven may not be happy with a decision the assembly makes—yet it stands by it. The assembly has been vested with the Lord’s authority to act for Him representatively in His absence; it is an extension of His authority on earth. And, it is possible for the assembly to use His authority wrongly—nevertheless, it’s still His authority.
We can well understand this principle within a household. In Mr. Darby’s article on “Confounding Authority with Infallibility” he makes mention of the fact that parents have a divinely given authority in their household, yet they are not infallible. Acquiescence is the duty of all in the household. A father might discipline a child mistakenly, but it still stands, and the duty of all in the household is to acquiesce. This is the way order in the household is maintained. When it comes to light that he has made a mistake, under normal conditions, he will correct his mistake with humble apologies and make the necessary amends. Also, in the case of a police magistrate: he has authority to arrest someone, but since he is not infallible, it is possible that he could make a mistake. Nevertheless, his action still stands, and the individual has no choice but to accept it until it is shown to be wrong. If the civil authorities were not run that way, there would be no order in government at all. Mr. Darby also said, “In a hundred instances obedience may be obligatory where there is no infallibility. Were it not so, as you can easily see, there could be no order in the world at all.  ... If there be no obedience where there is not infallibility, no acquiescence in what has been decided, there is no end to self-will and no existence of common order.” Similarly, in assembly decisions, heaven may not be pleased with something that the assembly binds in error, yet heaven stands by it for the time being. In this way, order is maintained in the house of God.
It should solemnize us greatly when we think that we could use the Lord’s authority and mistakenly identify heaven with something that is not right; and thus, incur the Lord’s governmental judgment. This is the very reason the Lord has outwardly dissociated Himself from the mass of the Christian profession and has taken up with a remnant testimony. And if those identified with that remnant testimony should carry on in a poor state and fail in their responsibility, He will bring His hand on them in governmental judgment, and reduce their numbers by sifting and scattering some, that they may be humbled. Sad to say, this has happened.
Mr. W. Potter has written a short paper on assembly actions of binding and loosing, wherein he says that the “whatsoever” in Matthew 18:1919Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. (Matthew 18:19) is an unconditional whatsoever. The assembly may enact a binding decision on, or against, whatever it feels is necessary for the Lord’s glory. Some imagine that this is akin to Popery and is giving the assembly undisputed authority. Such will argue that if “whatsoever” is unconditional, then the assembly could bind anything that it wanted to, and it would be automatically bound in heaven. In their minds it would be making heaven subject to the actions of the church on earth; and should the assembly make a mistake, then heaven would be in fellowship with the wrong. This assumption, however, is not true; we have already shown that the Lord is still in the midst of an erring assembly that has evil in it, until it is rectified or formally disowned.
Many have been sadly misled through the mistaken idea that unless an assembly action bears the hallmark of God’s Word, it is not ratified in heaven and binds no one on earth. In other words, the decision is only a binding action when it is a right decision. What they are really saying—though they may not realize it—is that all of the assembly’s true decisions are infallible. When the assembly acts administratively in making a binding decision, it is never wrong! The very ones who accuse the brethren of Popery are really those who hold to the principle of infallibility! Mr. Darby’s article shows that this mistaken idea is confounding authority with infallibility.
On the surface of this argument, it seems logical not to submit to an unrighteous decision, but behind this idea is the enemy’s attempt to bring confusion into the assembly, and to undermine its authority and its actions. All anyone has to do is declare that an action of the assembly is an unrighteous action, and conclude that heaven, therefore, has not bound it. And if heaven hasn’t accepted it, then they should reject it too. It is a convenient way to set aside assembly actions that we don’t like. If the assembly’s administrative acts were only to be submitted to under the condition that they are righteous acts, then all order would soon be lost. This erroneous idea makes assembly judgments subject to our private judgment. Then, the assembly is no longer the highest court of authority in these matters—our personal judgment is! The result is that everyone is left to do “that which was right in his own eyes” (Judges 21:2525In those days there was no king in Israel: every man did that which was right in his own eyes. (Judges 21:25)). However, Mr. Darby said, “A judgment of an assembly, even if I thought it a mistake, I should in the first instance accept and act upon it.”
In an effort to negate the force of the “whatsoever” in Matthew 18:1818Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. (Matthew 18:18), some have mistakenly assumed that verse 19 is a prayer meeting. Thus, they reason that if the assembly’s prayers are subject to heaven’s qualifying (for God only answers our prayers when they are according to His will), then the “whatsoever” they bind must also be subject to heaven’s qualifying. This is clever, but it is taking verse 19 right out of its context. The verse is not referring to a prayer meeting, but to those gathered to the Lord’s name, assembled as such to act in their administrative responsibilities when enacting a binding decision. It is a meeting for discipline. Paul speaks of this same kind of meeting in 1 Corinthians 5:4-54In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, 5To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. (1 Corinthians 5:4‑5). If the Lord had been referring to the prayer meeting in Matthew 18:1919Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. (Matthew 18:19), then He changed His subject right in the middle of His dissertation on the assembly’s administrative actions. Then afterwards, He switched back to the subject having to do with the Lord being in the midst and of the saints having a forgiving spirit toward a repentant brother who has sinned (vss. 20-35). This is senseless. The point of verses 19-20 is that the assembly comes together with the Lord in the midst to invoke God to ratify their binding decision. The promise is sure; “It shall be done for them of My Father which is in heaven.” (Verse 20 may be read in the breaking of bread, but it is only to establish the fact that the Lord is in the midst of His saints when they are gathered together in assembly.)
For those who question whether “whatsoever” is anything that the assembly might pass judgment on, we would point them to 2 Corinthians 2:1010To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ; (2 Corinthians 2:10). We find there, that when it comes to loosing a binding action, Paul says, “To whom ye forgive any thing ... ” If they are seen forgiving “any thing” they must necessarily have bound “any thing.” This should not be difficult to understand if someone has a willing mind—but that’s the great question. Do we really want the Lord’s mind? People sometimes make such a fuss about the assembly perhaps making a wrong decision, that you wonder what they are driving at. But really, how often has that happened? Rarely. Mr. Potter said that in the 50 years that he had been among brethren he had not known of an action that had been made that couldn’t be submitted to.
To some, the answer is to have another assembly step in and revise the original assembly’s decision. Mr. C. D. Maynard said, “An assembly, when gathered to the Name of Christ, has Him in its midst, and has His authority for acting in binding or loosing the sins of an offending brother (Matt. 18:18-2018Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. 20For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. (Matthew 18:18‑20)). Such an act is ratified in heaven. From this decision there is no appeal, save to Christ in glory; as Jesus ‘committed [His cause] to Him that judgeth righteously’ (1 Peter 2:23). ...It might occur to some that if a local assembly judged, as they thought, wrongly, an appeal might be made to another local assembly. For example, to restore a person wrongly put out. This has no more Scripture for it than any Romish corruption. On the face of it, it denies the practical oneness of the two meetings. To entertain the question refuses that there is one body and one Spirit. If the Lord’s table be one, both meetings are bound when one acts, so that appeal is impossible. If they can revise one another’s judgments, the unity of the Spirit does not exist there, they are but independent meetings.” The misunderstanding of this important principle in assembly matters is behind many of the sad divisions that have occurred among those gathered to the Lord’s Name down through the years. We do well, therefore, to ponder these things carefully.
Another erroneous idea that some have is that if the assembly makes a wrong decision, then it forfeits the ground that it is on as gathered to the Lord’s name and is no longer on divine ground. This is not right either. Again, it betrays the ignorance of confounding authority with infallibility. The fact that an assembly has authority, but is not infallible, is to acknowledge the possibility that it could make a mistake. In making a mistake, the assembly does not lose its status as being a Scripturally gathered assembly, any more than parents in a household cease to be parents because they make a mistake in disciplining their child.
An example of this misunderstanding is in what happened at Tunbridge Wells in 1908-9. Many thought that the actions the assembly took, first in silencing (1903), and then later putting away Mr. C. Strange (1908), were unrighteous. Believing that the dealings of Tunbridge Wells were unjust and unscriptural, they thought that the assembly had thereby lost its status as an assembly truly gathered to the Lord’s name. Consequently, many would not bow to their assembly decisions. Mr. W. R. Dronsfield propounds this mistaken idea in his book, “The Brethren Since 1870,” (p. 33), saying, “If two or three are truly gathered unto the Lord’s Name, any decision they come to must be right for heaven to acknowledge it as such. The converse of this, however, is also true, which is that if those gathered together come to an unjust and unrighteous decision, they cannot be gathered unto the Lord’s Name.” This mistaken idea led to a sorrowful division among brethren.
Summary:
If we think that the assembly has made an error in a binding decision:
First, we need to be sure that we understand the principles involved. It could be that we are uninformed and ignorant of certain Scriptural principles. If indeed it is a wrong decision, we should bring it to the Lord, the Head of the church, in prayer.
Then, we should express our convictions—based on Scripture—to the brethren and then wait for them to be exercised about it.
Then, we are to wait on the Lord to intervene and to set it right. Let us rest assured that He will come in, in His own time and in His own way; faith will wait on Him. If it is a serious error, it may be that the Lord will lead another assembly to formally disown that assembly as being on divine ground.
In the meantime, we are not to take things into our own hands and to begin to campaign among the brethren to overturn the decision. It is possible to stand for a right thing in a wrong way—and this only brings in confusion. Oftentimes, those who act in the flesh in assembly matters get slain—even if they are fighting for what is right! This was the danger that Peter got into in drawing his sword. The Lord said to him, “Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword” (Matt. 26:5252Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword. (Matthew 26:52)).