It is important to remark two things:
FIRST, moral nearness to God, and communion with Him, is the only means of any true enlargement in the knowledge of His ways, and the blessings which He imparts to His children, because it is the only position in which we can perceive them, or be morally capable of so doing: and also that all conduct that is not suitable to this nearness to God—all levity of thought which His presence does not admit of—makes us lose these communications from Him, and renders us incapable of receiving them.
SECOND, it is not that Ile (the Lord) forsakes us because of these faults, or this carelessness; He intercedes for its, and we experience His grace, but it is no longer communion, or intelligent progress in the riches of the revelation of Himself, of the fullness which is in Christ. It is grace adapted to our wants, an answer to our misery. Jesus stretches out His hands to us according to the need that we feel—need produced in our hearts by the operation of the Holy Ghost. This is infinitely precious grace—a sweet experience of His faithfulness and love. We learn by this means to discern between good and evil—by judging self; but the grace had to be adapted to our wants, and to receive a character according to those wants, as an answer made to them. We have had to think of ourselves. In a case like this the Holy Ghost occupies us with ourselves (ill grace, no doubt); and when we have lost communion with God, we cannot neglect this turning back on ourselves without deceiving and hardening ourselves. Alas, the dealings of many souls with Christ hardly go beyond this character. This, with all, is too often the case.
It is grace alone that allows us again to have to do with God. The fact that He restores us. enhances His grace in our eyes; but this is not communion.
When we walk with God—walk after the Spirit, without grieving Him—He maintains us in communion—in the enjoyment of God, the positive Source of joy—of an everlasting joy.
This is a position in which He can occupy us, as being ourselves interested in all that interests Him, with all the development of His counsels. His glory, His goodness, in the Person of Jesus the Christ, the Son of His love; and the heart is enlarged in the measure of the objects that occupy it.