Our words should be "always with grace," and prove themselves such by ministering good to the souls of others-"grace unto the hearers." This, however, will often be in the pungency of admonition or rebuke, and at times with severity or decision, or even with indignation and zeal. In this character they will be "seasoned with salt." And having these fine qualities, being thus gracious and yet salted, they will be such as will bear their own virtues, that we have known how to answer every man.
The Lord Jesus, above all others, illustrated this form of moral perfection. He knew how to answer every man with words which always were with grace for the soul's profit, but at times seasoned, or seasoned highly, with salt.
In answering inquiries He did not so much aim at satisfying them, as at reaching the conscience or the condition of those who presented them.
In His silence, as well as in His words, when He had to stand before the Jew or the Gentile at the last, before the priests, or Pilate, or Herod, we can trace full moral beauty and perfection, witnessing that at least One among the sons of men knew "a time to keep silence, and a time to speak."
Great variety in His style presents itself to us in all this. Sometimes He is gentle, sometimes peremptory, sometimes He reasons, sometimes He rebukes at once, and sometimes conducts calm reasoning to the point of solemn condemnation and judgment.
He knows the moral workings of everyone before Him. By Him actions are "weighed" in their value as before God, and His words as well as His doings answer them accordingly.
Matthew 15 is one chapter in which this perfection is wonderfully displayed. In the course of the action there, the Lord is called to answer Pharisees, the multitude, Peter, the Syrophenician, and the disciples in their mistakes and stupidity and selfishness; His tone of rebuke and of reasoning, of calm, patient teaching, of deep, wise and gracious training of the soul, are all precious and admirable in their place and occasion.
Is there not also a comeliness in its being said of the Lord in Luke 2, not that He was teaching or learning, but that He was hearing and asking questions? To have taught would not have been in season, a child as He was in the midst of His elders; to have learned would not have been in full fidelity to the light, the eminent and brighter light which He knew He carried in Himself, for He was wiser than His teachers, and had more understanding than the ancients (Psalm 119:99, 10099I have more understanding than all my teachers: for thy testimonies are my meditation. 100I understand more than the ancients, because I keep thy precepts. (Psalm 119:99‑100)). Here again we get the grace of which that scripture- "Let your speech be always with grace"-speaks. For of this same Child who was in the temple with the doctors of law, we read that He was "strong in spirit, filled with wisdom; and the grace of God was upon Him." He knew how to use the fullness of wisdom that was in Him in perfection of grace, and He is, therefore, not presented to us as either teaching or learning.
And so, in this area of our lives, our speech, may we learn to be more conformed to our perfect Example, the man Christ Jesus.