"Quit You Like Men": Part 2

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God’s Plan for Men
In considering Biblical manhood, we do well to return to the beginning the source of manhood as found in Genesis. There we will discover unchanging, divine principles which will provide guidance for each brother desiring to “quit you [act] like men.”
Headship and Moral Likeness
Man was to be God’s representative, both in authority as head over creation and to display moral likeness to Him in the exercise of that headship. Adam failed in both, and now man as born in sin can never again properly represent God.
Foundations of Manhood
Genesis 2 records the special place (Eden) that God created for man to inhabit a place not only of fulfillment, delight and fellowship, but one of responsibility. Initially, in that beautiful garden, except for a companion, God placed everything there that could satisfy Adam’s heart.
The garden had beautiful trees, speaking of strength. They bore fruit for Adam to eat, speaking of joy. A river flowed in Eden to water the garden, speaking of God’s blessings. When it went out from the garden, the river had multiplied fourfold, flowing to other lands. This speaks of fruitfulness.
Attack on Manhood
These four things, strength, joy, God’s blessing, and fruitfulness, picture the basic characteristics and results of true manhood. Yet today, the world (at least the Western, Christianized world) is guided by deluded, false principles of feminism which undermine the God-ordained sphere of manhood.
Where they are submitted to, principles of feminism rob man of his strength and joy, while they also obstruct God’s river of blessing intended to supply and refresh the sphere of manhood. Furthermore, this wicked philosophy, where accommodated, dries up the blessings which could otherwise flow out from those walking as men.
Responsibilities of Manhood
God gave Adam work to do he was to till and guard Eden (Gen. 2:1515And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. (Genesis 2:15) JND). Brothers, we are responsible before God to diligently nurture (till) and protect (guard) our God-given role as men. Tilling develops and enhances manhood and the blessings resulting from it, while guarding it keeps Satan (in whatever form he may take as an angel of light) from spoiling and ruining our manhood.
We must be constantly and prayerfully on guard against laziness, carelessness and self-will (in both natural and spiritual realms). Diligent tilling is required to keep these harmful characteristics from taking root in the garden of manhood.
A man must also be resolute in guarding his manhood from being overpowered by the enemy. Men daily face conflict from Satan and the world, finding many hindrances and obstacles thrown in the way. If not diligent in guarding his garden, such attacks weary one, making it seem as though the prudent thing would be to quit acting as a man.
God’s Offer and Warning
God communicated an invitation and a warning to Adam. Adam neglected both. It is vital that Christian men both listen to and obey the Word of God. We daily need the spirit of Jeremiah: “Thy words were found, and I did eat them; and Thy word was unto me the joy and rejoicing of mine heart.”
God graciously offered Adam full liberty. “Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat.” In application we may say that contrary to feministic philosophies and teaching, men never need feel constrained in or guilty about acting as men should.
On the other hand, God warned Adam that one certain thing was off limits to him. In the cultivation and exercise of manhood, God warns of certain conduct (natural and spiritual) which is off limits—forbidden. If blessing is to flow to others from our manhood, we need to follow God’s directions in how we exercise headship with our brethren, our wives, our children, as well as our contacts in the world.
Great Blessing—Great Failure
In blessing him with Eve, God gave Adam the second most important reason he had to act like a man. (God was first.) Eve was his helpmate, one with him, alone able to fill the void in Adam’s heart that all of creation could not fill. It was imperative that Adam (as man) take responsibility for guarding the garden of delight where he and his wife dwelt together.
He also failed as man to take the place of responsibility when the serpent addressed Eve. God had delivered His instructions, invitation and warning (Gen. 2:15-1715And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. 16And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: 17But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die. (Genesis 2:15‑17)) to the man to Adam. Yet when Eve took it upon herself to answer the serpent (who by addressing Eve, circumvented the head of God’s creation; see 1 Tim. 2:13-1413For Adam was first formed, then Eve. 14And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. (1 Timothy 2:13‑14)), Adam remained silent. He did not act like a man responsibly nor in headship, allowing Eve to usurp the place God gave to him. This neglect led to sin, exclusion from the garden of delights and the tree of life, and death solemn results from failure to act like a man!
Future articles will consider further principles of manhood gleaned from the Word of God.
Ed.