The tenderness of the Lord Jesus, knowing the broken heart His mother would have (Luke 2:3535(Yea, a sword shall pierce through thy own soul also,) that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed. (Luke 2:35)) to see her firstborn Son suffering and dying at the hand of unjust man, would place in John’s hands the responsibility of her care and comfort. How perfectly this shows the importance of maintaining our human, family relationships. He was “about [His] Father’s business” (note that Joseph is not mentioned as His father), but His tender compassion saw to her care.
Realizing the awful judgment of being punished for sin, He who knew no sin spoke these words at the end of the three hours of darkness (the ninth hour). The one and only perfect, righteous man on earth is forsaken of God. It was not the thought of death or suffering that caused Him to cry out it was the forsaking of holy God.
This was spoken to fulfill the Scripture (Psa. 69:2121They gave me also gall for my meat; and in my thirst they gave me vinegar to drink. (Psalm 69:21)). It also presents a little picture of the terrible suffering of His death. After all the beatings, false accusations, shame, mockery and agony of the nails driven into His hands and feet the agonizing pain of crucifixion He also had to endure such terrible thirst.
After receiving the vinegar, He cries out these words of victory, bows His head and, dismissing His spirit, dies. He is stating that the work on the cross is accomplished. No more suffering (offering) for sin will ever be required (Heb. 10:1818Now where remission of these is, there is no more offering for sin. (Hebrews 10:18)). He knew what was required on the cross, the suffering it would entail (John 18:44Jesus therefore, knowing all things that should come upon him, went forth, and said unto them, Whom seek ye? (John 18:4)), and when it was fully and perfectly completed, He, knowing that, gave up His spirit. And this was no light load to bear, for He suffered at the hand of a righteous God the full wrath and total punishment, measured out justly, for all the sin of the world (John 1:2929The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world. (John 1:29)).
This is possibly the same as Matthew 27:5050Jesus, when he had cried again with a loud voice, yielded up the ghost. (Matthew 27:50) where He cries with a loud voice. It was the Lord Jesus’ final act as a man. He knew His body was going into the grave for three days, but His spirit would be with the Father.
D. Berry