In today's world it's considered acceptable to date around, have fun, and not get serious about just one guy or girl just like going to a super market to buy a box of cereal. There are so many different choices that if you find you don't like the taste of one, you can try another! This is exactly man's idea of how to find a life's companion. "Shop around" before you get married is the world's counsel. The more guys (girls) you date, the easier it will be to know when you have found the "right one". Such reasoning is very foolish-just like trying to build a house on water rather than on firm dry earth.