We are introduced into the human family by birth and we also are introduced into the family of God by birth―by being "born again." Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. John 3:77Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. (John 3:7).
As there is no way to get into the human family except by birth, so there is no way to get into God's family except by new birth.
Education will not do it. Reformation will not do it. Joining a church will not do it. Making up your mind to "do better" will not do it. Trying to do your best will not do it. "Turning over a new leaf" will not do it. What is needed is not a new "leaf," but a new "life." "Ye MUST be born again."
The old nature cannot be improved in God's sight; it is hopelessly corrupt, and incapable of ever being made fit for His presence. The new birth requires a creative act of the Holy Spirit.
Not "Trying"―but "Trusting." "Trying to follow Christ" is not Christianity. It is not trying to imitate Christ; it is the indwelling of Christ. Christianity is not trying to do anything; it is trusting Christ who has done it all!
He has finished the work and there is nothing left to do. Now, simply receive and trust Him who said, "It is finished!" He shed His precious blood on the cross, and the work is all done once and forever! Stop trying and begin trusting!
How may I be "born again"? Simply "believe on the Lord Jesus Christ." Acts 16:3131And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house. (Acts 16:31). "Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God." 1 John 5:11Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God: and every one that loveth him that begat loveth him also that is begotten of him. (1 John 5:1). "As many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on His name: which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God." John 1:12, 1312But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: 13Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. (John 1:12‑13).
You are born again, you become a Christian, by trusting a Person―the Person of Christ. The very moment you do this the Lord Jesus Christ comes in, and life, His life, begins in you.
The important question then is: "Have you been born again?" "Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." John 3:33Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. (John 3:3). But God says, "He that heareth My word, and believeth on Him that sent Me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life." John 5:2424Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life. (John 5:24).
Have you believed on the Lord Jesus Christ? If so, then you are saved, you are "born again," you have "passed from death unto life"―God says so! Take God at His word, and go on your way rejoicing!